Anger, one of the biggest sins in the world i would say. The result of anger is something which could not be described. It may demolish a city, or a family or a person or the whole human community.
A person who kills thousands of thousands of people is not called as a brave or strong person. A person who controls himself when he is in anger is the real courageous person in the world.
At the same time, angry should not be completely eradicated too. Right anger at wrong time or the wrong anger at right time is bad. The anger which occurs when needed is bad. The anger which doesn't occur when needed is too bad. One should know when to use anger and when not to use it. If we stay in anger for whole day, there won’t be any respect for our anger. People will start calling us as "Psychopath". Same way, we should not be without anger at all. If we do so, then people will call us dumb guy.
Therefore, know yourself, control your anger. Make way for justice.
12 October, 2008
Anger
05 October, 2008
Opportunity & Talent...
Many scholars say that every kid born with a talent and no one is left in the worked without any talent in him/her. He/She had to realize the hidden talent in him/her and shine according to that. Among these two statements I agree with realization but not with the talent statement.
Without realizing what and how we are, we will live an animal's life. Every one is not given talents. It everyone is born with talents, than he/she can easily shine. Is that happening? The Answer is NO.
All the citizens of the world are not shining. So, we can make a change in the statement.
All are not born with talents but with opportunities. People shine who make the best use of opportunities and get into dark that misses it.
An opportunity is what which brings out the talents and hidden talents of a person. If someone doesn’t get an opportunity, than there is no use having extreme talents. Therefore though you are not born with talents, you are born with opportunities. Grab it.
Love after Marriage...
Being in love, been loved, lovable are few terms which get transferred from month to month among youngsters. I support the love that comes after marriage. Most of the youths who are in love thinks that love has to come to an end love about the duration of love, their reply would be like, "we loved till we get married, after that we started living and later we started leaving".
This should not be the scenario. A successful love is one, which starts after marriage. All the love affair that comes before marriage is just affairs and infatuation in many cases. People today live a turbo life. The take birth in a turbo fast get married brings few more population to earth and die soon. This is what presents in the life cycle of an average man. People don't have time to relax and think about good and bad. They live their life like a water stream. It flows wherever there is a fall and stops wherever there are some hill.
I told about this love after marriage concept to my friend. He said, "What you say is hundred percent true dude. Everyone has to have love after marriage. But he should make sure that their life partner doesn't find this".